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Break-ups are never easy. Whether you were “just dating” or married, with or without kids, it hurts when a relationship ends. To spend time grieving is perfectly natural and healthy but there comes a time when your heart yearns to be healed.分手从来就不是一件容易的事。不论你只是约约会或是已经结了婚,也不论有没有孩子,当一段关系结束的时候,它总是伤人的。为了结束的感情难过这很正常,但这时也是你的心灵需要治愈的时候。The following 5 steps can help you begin down that path of healing.以下5个步骤帮助你开始这条愈合之路。1. It’s Not About You—Really, It’s Not不是你的问题,真的不是你的错You know that old saying “it’s not you, it’s me”? While we usually think of it as a cop-out, a way for someone to spare our feelings, the reality is that it is actually true. People act a certain way, make certain decisions, and choose to life their life a certain way because of their own desires and needs; not because of us.你知道那句古话“不是你的错,是我的错”吗?通常我们认为这种说法是一种逃避,也是一种舒缓我们感受的方式,而事实上这说法确实是对的。人们以特定的方式表现,做出特定的决定,选择他们想要的方式生活,因为他们有自己的欲望和需要,而不是因为我们!When someone is a jerk, or says something nasty, or leaves you, it is because of something going on inside of them. Please know that I am not excluding the influence of your own behavior that may have precipitated the break-up, but it comes down to the fact that your ex left because of their reactions and feelings surrounding that event and it may have been the right choice for them.当某人变成了个混蛋,说了难听的话,或是离开了你,那是因为他们内心起了变化。请明白我不是要排除你自己行为带来的影响,这些行为可能也触发了分手的发生,但事实可以归结为你的前任离开你是因为他们对待事情的反应和感受有了变化,而这样做对他们来说也许是一个正确的选择。Once a relationship ends, you can’t go back and change things no matter how much you want to, so it’s best to stop beating yourself up about the past. Forgive yourself for your part in the break up, learn lessons from it, and try not to take it personally. Realize that you are perfect just the way you are and there is someone out there who will agree.当一段关系结束,无论你有多想,你都回不去了,也改变不了任何事,所以关于过去,最好就是停止自责。宽容自己,从中吸取教训,尽量不要独自忍受痛苦。要知道以自己的方式做,你就是完美的,总有一个人会欣赏你这样的方式。2. This Too Shall Pass这一切都会过去I know it doesn’t seem like it now, but the pain will go away.我知道现在你不这么想,但疼痛总会消失。Allow yourself to really feel your feelings—wallow in them if you want—and know that they are temporary. Sometimes it’s good to think back to another time in your life where you felt broken, and then realize that it did, indeed, get better. This will too. If you have faith that these feelings will pass, that you will feel better someday, that day will arrive much sooner.让自己真正地体会感受,如果你想,你可以沉浸其中。但要清楚它们只是暂时的。有时回想过去你心痛的那一刻,然后意识到它确实会变好,这样的回想也是有好处的。如果你相信这些感觉也会过去,终有一天你也会变好,那么这一天就会来得早很多。3. Forgive amp;Pray原谅和祈祷You may be feeling some very negative emotions towards your ex, such as anger, resentment, and frustration, but harboring these feelings is only hurting one person—you. In order to save yourself, you need to forgive your ex. Now, I don’t mean you have to call them up and tell them they are forgiven (although you can if you want to), you just need to forgive them in your heart.对你的前任,也许你的内心充满了很多消极情绪,比如生气、怨恨和失望,但是怀着这些情绪只会伤害到一个人,就是你。为了拯救自己,你需要原谅你的前任。在这里,我不是说你要打电话给他们说你原谅他们了(当然如果你想的话,你可以这么做),你只需要在心里原谅他们就可以了。I have found that praying for that person helps with being able to forgive them and move on. Pray for their happiness and continued health and mean it when you say it. You should feel your anger and resentment getting less and less if you continue this practice. Doing this has the added benefit of showing yourself what a good person you really are. Hey, you even pray for those that hurt you, so you must be a loving, generous person who deserves love.我发现为那个人祈祷能帮助我们原谅他们并使自己继续前进。为他们的幸福和健康祈祷,当你说这些的时候,要认真地说。如果你保持练习,你应该感觉到愤怒和怨恨在变得越来越少。这样做还有其它好处,就是向别人展示你真的是一个很好的人。不是吧,你竟然祝福那些伤害你的人?你一定是个有爱心又慷慨的人,值得很多人爱慕。4. Live Life One Day at a Time珍惜每一天Concentrate on today, and focus on the present moment. It’s said that worry is like a rocking chair: it keeps you busy, but doesn’t get you anywhere. It’s time to stop worrying about the future and notice where you are today. Don’t worry about your sister’s wedding in 6 months and the fact that now you don’t have a date. Don’t worry about what will happen if you see him around town with another girl—just live for today, the rest will take care of itself. Be present for all the gifts the universe is trying to give you today.专注今天,专注当前。烦恼就像一把摇椅:它让你忙碌,但又让你原地踏步。是时候了,停止担忧未来,留意一下今天你在哪里。不要担心6个月后你就要结婚了,而现在的你连一个约会对象都没有。不要担心如果你在镇上看到他和另一个女孩在一起会发生什么。只为今天而活,其余的自会如常。今天这个世界给你的全部礼物就是当下。5. It’s All About Progress这些全是进步Life is hard: if it wasn’t, we would all be perfect people living in a perfect world. Give yourself kudos for any and all progress you make, since anytime you are able to move in a forward direction, that is worth celebrating. Keep track of all the progress you have made by keeping a journal of all your successes. Then, when you feel that you are going backwards, through it and you will realize just how far you have come.生活是艰难的,如果不是,那我们就是生活在一个完美世界里的完美的人。要表扬自己取得的任何进步,因为不论什么时候你都走在前进的道路上,这是值得庆祝的。要在日志本里记录你所有的成功,以此来记录你所取得的进步。然后当你觉得退步了,再读一遍,你就会意识到自己走了有多远。Final Thought最后的想法Healing your heart is really about healing your whole self, so be sure to take this opportunity to delve deeper into who you are and what you want. Start by appreciating the lessons you learned from the past, being present in the here and now, and using your power to create the future you want.治愈你的心,其实就是在治愈你整个人,因而一定要抓住这次机会深刻了解你是怎样的人,以及你想要什么。治愈之路始于感谢那些你从过去的经历中学到的教训;始于专注当下;始于发挥你的力量去创造你想要的未来。 /201310/262824A woman has documented her incredible 88lb weight loss with a series of photos showing just how dramatically her body - and self-confidence - has changed.一名女子用一系列照片记录下了自己不可思议的减肥经历:一年内她瘦了88磅(约为79.8斤)!这些照片表现出了她是如何戏剧般地改变了她的身材,并重建自信。26-year-old Amanda, who did not reveal her last name, embarked on a high-fat, moderate protein and low-carbohydrate diet in 2011 in a bid to shrink her then-222lb frame.26岁的阿曼达(未透露姓氏)在2011年开始了高脂、适量蛋白以及低碳水化合物的饮食,希望能减掉一些体重,当时她重达222磅(约为201斤)。In just a year, the five-foot-four brunette lost 88lbs, taking monthly pictures throughout the process, which one of her impressed viewers compiled into a five-second GIF.仅仅一年后,这个身高5.4英尺(约为1.64米)留着深褐色头发的姑娘减掉了88磅,并在整个减肥过程中每个月都拍下了照片。一位被她感染的网友将这些照片制作成了一张5秒的GIF动图。Amanda told A News that the transformation took place in her mind as well as her body. The GIF clearly shows how the weight loss affected every inch of her body, from her shrunken waist to her thinned-out neck and flattened tummy.阿曼达告诉A新闻,这个改变不仅发生在她的身形上,还在她的心里。GIF动图也清晰地表现出减肥是如何影响她的每一寸身体的,从更纤细的腰身到细长的脖子和更平坦的腹部。#39;In the early stages of taking progress pictures, I literally only took one photo of myself. I hated the way I looked, I had so little self-confidence .#39; she wrote.她在网上写道,“早些时候我拍摄照片,只会为自己拍一张。我讨厌自己那时的样子。我当时几乎没有自信。”But as the images - which garnered a staggering 3million views - progress in time, Amanda is seen looking happier, healthier and much more self-assured.但是当照片上呈现的效果慢慢进步后,阿曼达看起来更高兴、健康也更自信了。这些照片的浏览量达到了惊人的300万。 /201309/256996

It has long been said that a man with a good sense of humour can laugh a woman in to bed, despite his looks.一直以来,人们都认为,一个幽默的男人能让女人开心,把女人哄上床,不论他相貌如何。Now researchers believe the opposite may also be true - that we also find attractive members of the opposite sex more amusing.现在研究人员认为,也许反过来说也是对的——研究发现,长得帅的男人更风趣。Psychologists at the University of Stirling have discovered that good-looking people were perceived as funnier when the people listening to them could see what they looked like - i.e. whether they were attractive or not.英国斯特灵大学的心理学家发现,当人们可以看到讲话者的面容(好看与否)时,长得好看的讲话者给人感觉更幽默。In the study, undergraduate psychology students were ed while being asked which two items they would take to a desert island, and why. They could pick from either chocolate, hairspray or a plastic bag.在这一研究中,研究人员让一些心理学专业本科在读的学生回答将把哪两种东西带到荒岛上,并说出理由。他们可以从巧克力、发胶或塑料袋里面选,整个问答过程都录成了视频。While the students weren#39;t told that the study was about humour, the vast majority gave the appearance of trying to be funny in their answers.虽然研究人员没有告诉学生这一研究和幽默有关,但绝大部分学生看起来都努力想让自己的显得有趣。Other students were then asked to rate the desert-island comments for wit, as well as how attractive each of the commenters might be for a short-term or long-term relationship.其他一部分学生被要求给这些荒岛题回答的幽默感,以及各个应答者在短期或长期恋爱关系中的魅力指数打分。The researchers found that attractive individuals were rated as funnier in clips than their less dashing counterparts.研究人员发现,长得好看的人在视频中的表现被认为比长相平凡的人更有趣。Funnier men were also considered most attractive for a fling, the researchers found.研究人员还发现,风趣的男人被认为在短暂恋情中最有魅力。This might be because wit may give off the impression of not being serious or willing to commit to a long-term relationship.这也许是因为风趣的外表会给人对待感情不认真或不愿意对长期感情关系负责的印象。Being recorded on also made a real difference. Men who were ed were generally considered more amusing than those who only had their voices recorded and provided a photo of themselves.问答过程被录成视频也对结果产生了很大影响。一般来说,那些被录像的男人比那些只录下声音、提供个人照片的男人给人感觉更幽默。One theory is that men, in particular, use humour as a mating signal, to show-off their intelligence and good genes to women.研究人员提出的一个理论是,男人尤其喜欢把幽默作为一个交配信号来向女人展示自己的才智和优良基因。Another is that we use wit to indicate we are sexually attracted to people.另一个理论是,男人用风趣的谈吐来表明自己被异性吸引。The study was published in the journal Personality and Individual Differences.该研究发表在《个性与个体差异》杂志上。 /201303/228430

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